How To Stay Sane When You Have to Stay Home: Things You Can Do To Keep Busy During Quarantine (“Social-Distancing”)

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Lockdown

We are in the midst of a global pandemic.



It's not clear how long it will take for things to go back to normal, or what normal will look like once this is all over. All we know for certain is that for the time being, in order to keep ourselves and others safe, we must stay at home.

For some, it has been days, and for others, weeks since state and national governments around the world set new directives instructing the general public and non-essential workers to stay at home. This includes working from home during the week and staying indoors at the weekends. This is completely new to most of us, and unsurprisingly, people are struggling - that's right, you're not alone.

As long as you're part of the privileged groups of people who still have access to food, water, shelter, electricity and a steady internet connection, your main concern right now is probably how to stay busy, or at the very least, how to prevent yourself from dissolving into a puddle on your couch or bed.

Evenings and Weekends

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You probably have a lot more time in the evenings and at weekends than you're used to. You might find yourself wondering what to do with that time. Rest and sleep are perfectly fine answers, by the way, but there's a limit to how much of that you can do, and to the benefits of doing nothing.

If you're tired of sleeping and watching TV here are some other suggestions:

  • Find a fun home workout - Yoga, pilates and aerobics can all be done with little to no additional equipment and will ensure you stay, fit, strong and flexible. Youtube is a great resource and it's free.

  • Start or join a virtual book club. If you've been saying you want to read more, then this current is a perfect time. The books don't need to be too long, serious or heavy. If books feel like too much of a commitment, then you could try articles instead. Pocket is an excellent resource if you are in the habit of bookmarking and losing or forgetting about saved online articles you want to read.

  • Learn a new cooking recipe or perfect one you already use. With restrictions on movement in place, it's likely that you're eating out a lot less. What's in your fridge and cupboard? Check online for quick and easy recipes. This is a great way to use up random food items and to reduce waste.

  • Start or join a virtual film club. Since most of us are watching a lot more TV and film, why not turn this into a social activity and brush up on your film-critiquing skills? It'll force you to pay more attention and help you find new ways to process and analyse visual information.

  • Play Games: Boards games, card games, trivia and puzzles are great ways to pass the time, and connect with others. Keep your brain active and have some fun.

Work on Professional Skills and Personal Development

  • Pick up a new language or resume learning an old one. Learning a new language can be done from the comfort of your home. Rosetta Stone, Duolingo and Babbel are available online and via mobile apps. My personal favourite is Duolingo. I refreshing my French and learning Brazilian Portuguese.

  • Update your CV and LinkedIn. I've seen plenty of people complain about this advice, but this really is the perfect time to do it. This pandemic has created a lot of uncertainty, job insecurity, and in some cases, a spike in unemployment. Now that you no longer have to commute to and from work, you may have some extra time on your hands, and figuring out how best to market your skills and abilities is a huge plus. Take advantage of this time - it could be a great distraction.

  • Learn something new. This could be a topic, skill or acquiring a certification. If the thought of having to submit work to follow an academic timetable feels a bit much there are self-paced options for online learning; Coursera, EDX, Udemy, HBS Online and others offer an array of free online courses. You can also use books, podcasts, or live online learning events.

Get Your House in Order

Focus on putting things in place at home, both literally and figuratively. If ever there were a time when you should have a clear view of your finances cash inflows, outflows and investments, it's now.

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Money

  • Create a budget. If you're not usually one for budgeting, you might want to consider it now.

  • Track and analyse spending: Going out less, should mean spending less, but that might not be the case if you're not properly tracking your spending. Cancel all non-essential spending, and hold onto your cash.

  • Do some financial planning: Hopefully, your job isn't impacted by current global events, but act and plan as if it might be. What might change if you lost your job next month?

Home

  • Tidy up: You have time to tidy - that's not as easy when you're stuck in your normal routine. Now you can tackle it little by little, and if you're home with family or friends everyone can get involved.

  • Clean: Our homes need to be cleaner than ever. It's an ongoing effort, and you will need to be more conscious and deliberate about keeping surfaces clean.

  • Clear out: consider getting rid of old possessions such as toys, books, shoes and clothes. Bag them up and put them aside for charity donations (lots of churches and other organisations collect clothes and shoe donations).

  • DIY: Your home may need minor superficial repairs. If there are things that you can learn or do yourself, do some research online and see if you can solve the problem. If you have a garden, you could learn how to take care of it and save some costs there too.

Get Creative: Start that Passion Project

If you've always wanted to learn how to:

  • Write

  • Dance

  • Paint

  • Draw

  • Take pictures

  • Cook or bake

Whatever it is, now is the time!

The strain and stress of current events, as well as the constant bombardment of bad and scary news, can have a draining effect, so it's up to you to push yourself. We don't yet know how long it will take for this to all be over, but however long that is, it's important to remember that life hasn't stopped, and neither should you. By no means am I advocating that you do everything in these lists? Why not pick 1-2 activities to keep yourself busy? The more you can find to do at home, the less likely you are to step out and risk getting yourself or others sick.




Recap: Session #3 Summary: Promotion & Progression, February 2018

Listen to Peer Mentor Circles Founder, Oreoluwa and Member, Ayo (Founder of WEMNE, Women's Empowerment Network), in an informal Q&A session on career promotion and progression. 

Listen to the our conversation.

The Journey up

Take the time to ask your boss about career progression opportunities, and discuss the potential ways you could develop within the business. If you own your own business, think about what career progression might look like for you. Various development opportunities exist within most businesses, and finding the one that suits you best could catapult your career in the right direction.

If you are a supervisor, business owner, or leader of teams, take time to have open, honest discussions with your team members and direct reports about the kind of opportunities that will be available to them.

Practical Steps to help your career planning

Step 1: Write down your primary career interests.

Step 2: Identify long-term professional goals (including positions desired within the company or goals for your business).

Step 3: Identify the short-term goals that will contribute to long-term interests.

Step 4: Identify any gaps or challenges, that may stand in your way, and consider practical steps that you can take to address these challenges.

Step 5: List 2-3 activities that will help you reach each goal.

Other personal development options

  • Graduate/Trainee schemes
  • Training courses
  • Online training
  • Professional Certifications
  • In-role development/projects to develop skills and gain relevant experience
  • Initiatives/projects outside of work; e.g. blogging, clubs, networks

TOP TIPS

  • Plan and prepare for a conversation about a promotion/career progression.
  • Make sure you understand how you add value to your business/organisation, and find ways to demonstrate this.
  • Take emotion out of it - no one gets a promotion just because they feel like they deserve one.
  • Look at the types of people in the positions that you want
    • How did they get there?
    • What are the significant moments/experiences in their careers, and how might you gain more relevant experience?
    • What skills do they possess that make them right for the job? How might you develop your skill set?
    • Reach out, and see if they are willing to mentor you

Questions to ask yourself before asking/going for a promotion

Are you ready for the promotion/progression? - Do you have the capacity to learn, deliver and excel at a higher level.

Are you qualified? - Do you have the skills, experience, etc.

Are you deserving? - Are you dedicated, and diligent? Do you have the right attitude?

Final Advice

  1. Self-promotion - start with you, and learn how to sell yourself.
  2. Network - use your network, to stay up to date on what opportunities may be out there
  3. Work out loud - share your work/progress/achievements, ask where you can help others

Resources

Career Development Plan Templatehttps://performancemanager.successfactors.com/doc/po/develop_employee/carsample.html

How to have constructive discussions about your career progression https://www.theguardian.com/careers/careers-blog/how-to-constructive-discussions-career-progression

16 Mistakes Employees Make When Trying To Get A Promotion https://www.forbes.com/sites/jacquelynsmith/2013/10/24/16-mistakes-employees-make-when-trying-to-get-a-promotion/#48e1a7dd35f

Top tips to get a promotion at work https://www.theguardian.com/careers/top-tips-get-promotion-at-wor

Bosses Tell Us: 11 Things That Will Get You Promoted https://www.themuse.com/advice/bosses-tell-us-11-things-that-will-get-you-promote

Moving Up the Ladder: 10 Strategies for Getting Yourself Promoted https://www.livecareer.com/career/advice/jobs/getting-promoted-strategie

Recap: Session #2 Summary: Job Applications & Interviews, November 2017

Discussion Summary

This session covered the challenges we all face when applying for jobs. The group shared best practices for CV and Cover letter writing, as well as interview etiquette. 

Top tips

Have someone you trust read through your CV/Cover letter(s)!

When Applying

  • Think about why you want the job, and what in your skills/experience make it a good job for you
  • Update your CV and LinkedIn profile
  • Check out what current employers think on Glassdoor and LinkedIn

CVs/Resumes

  • Match your cv/resume to the job description
  • Quantify your experiences wherever possible, e.g: "As contract holder, I re-negotiated the lunchtime catering service with our food supplier, and reduced the company spend on food by 20%."
  • Try to keep your CV under two pages

Cover Letters

  • Do not repeat what is in your CV in your cover letter - the letter is an opportunity to introduce yourself and explain why you think you're the best person for the job
  • Keep cover letters to 1-page/500 words max
  • Double-check your CV/Cover letter(s) for typos and grammatical errors

Interviews

  • Do your research - learn about the role as we as the business/company you want to work for and highlight key experiences that make you a good fit for the job
  • Come ready to ask the interviewer questions
  • Do not lie in your CV - companies do background checks to verify the information you provide, and usually spend time during interviews walking through your CV, so enhance, don't lie

Group Exercise 

The group was asked to review the two CVs below, pick the best candidate for an admin position, and discuss why. 

Try it yourself!

  1. Have a look at both CVs, and pick your preferred candidate.
  2. Think about why you have chosen this person.
  3. What about their CV or experience stands out? How might you apply the positives to your own CV/job applications?

CVs:

Example 1

Example 2

Recording

Slides

Session #2 Slides 

Resources

3 Tips for Handling Online Job Applications https://insights.dice.com/2015/12/14/3-tips-for-handling-online-job-applications/

10 Things to Do While You Are Looking For Work https://www.inc.com/jayson-demers/10-things-you-should-do-while-you-re-looking-for-work.html 

15 Tips to Get Hired Fast https://www.thebalance.com/tips-to-help-you-get-hired-fast-2059661

Learn How to Apply for Jobs https://www.thebalance.com/best-ways-to-apply-for-jobs-2061599

20 Tips for Great Job Interviews http://www.experisjobs.us/exp_us/en/career-advice/20-tips-job-interviews.htm

Please Don't Do These 9 Things in An Interview https://www.forbes.com/sites/erikaandersen/2014/06/03/please-dont-do-these-9-things-in-an-interview/ 

How To Keep Sane During Your Job Search

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Author: Ariyike Sodeinde

Job hunting can be a really frustrating, emotional and depressing time, especially if it's your first time facing the job market. I have been looking for a job, straight out of my masters programme, for over a year now.

This is post is about how to keep going. I'm sharing some personal tips and suggestions on how to have a balanced life during your job search, and not so much on how to apply for jobs. II'll share tips from my personal research and experience, about how to start your job hunt, for those who are currently in the thick of it, keep sane as possible.

I. Remember: It takes time.

I definitely feel like I was not prepared for how long this process would take or how many rejections I would get before I even got a first stage interview. When speaking to my friends they all felt the same way. Some waited six months, one year or or even two years before they finally got a full-time job.

If you were like me and getting through full-time education with good grades was fairly easy, you may be entering the job market with unrealistic time expectations. Going from my A Levels, to my undergraduate degree programme, and then onto the postgraduate degree programme I wanted was fairly simple. Don’t get me wrong, there was A LOT of work involved at every stage, but the application processes did not take long. So if you’re just setting out on your job search or you’re  like me and did not see yourself still looking for a job a year after you finished your degree; remember that these things take time. Do what you can; make sure your CV is in good shape, continue applying and interviewing for jobs, even find some part-time work if you can, but beyond that, don't spend too much of your time worrying about factors over things out of your control. It can take months from the point where you complete and submit your application to getting to a final stage interview or assessment centre. Creating more stress and pressure for yourself means that you won't be able to get through the process with a clear head. So, try to relax, fill and complete every stage of your application to the best of your ability, and be patient for responses - remember that sometimes you won't get a response at all. This kind of rejection can be really tough, but try not to let it get you down.

II. Get a part time job.

If looking for a job is your full-time job, getting a part-time job might be a good way to get you out of the house and help you to earn some money whilst you are going through the application processes. Working for Peer Mentor Circles has helped me to develop new skills. Being a social sciences graduate, I never thought I would have anything to do with website migration, social media or even blogging, but learning how do to these different things has helped me to continue to get a sense of accomplishment during this waiting period. Getting a part time job also looks good on your CV. As I said, company application processes can take a long time - you don’t want to have significant gaps in your CV, and a part-time job can show that you are developing and learning new skills.

III. Find other ways to occupy your time.

Looking for a job can be extremely monotonous. Throw in the current social-distancing and self-isolation requirements, and it can add quite the strain on your mental wellness. To battle this, create a daily routine for yourself and try to stick to it. You can see the day like a working day, and split your time into three blocks. For example, 9am-12pm, 12pm-3pm, 3pm-6pm). Make sure you create breaks for yourself, and in these breaks, eat, watch tv, read a book, or workout. Do something so that your mind can take a break for a little while. Short breaks will always make you more productive.

Whenever I say I am looking for a job, people tell me to enjoy this time that I have because when I start working nothing will be same. It’s hard advice to take because you can feel guilty when you’re relaxing or enjoying your time because, “should you really be doing this when you’re effectively jobless???”. The answer is yes. Of course jobs are important, but so is having a balanced life, both in and out of employment. So whenever that nagging guilt comes, remember that employment shouldn't mean you can't enjoy some free time, rest time, or social time.

I hope these tips help you. Keep sending in applications each day. Take your time with them, and have someone else look through them before you submit. Try to find a way to make some money on the side if you can, and remember to enjoy every day and every moment as it comes.

Written by Ariyike Sodeinde for Peer Mentor Circles.

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